Nokia 6265i BT HELP

so i just picked up the nokia 6265i and im totally new to this bluetooth thing.
i've followed the instructions,
im using a laptop with wireless internet on a Broadcom 802.11b/g internal modem (with bluetooth ENABLED in the properties)
i've turned my bluetooth on my phone, tried using "Nokia's PC Suite" (the version compatible with my phone)
and it won't connect to it.

if anyone knows any better programs/proper configurations or maybe im just not doing it right at all but it would help ALOT

What service provider are you using? Some providers cripple the BT features on their phones, making it so the only thing it is good for is using a BT headset.

telus
their whack

I don't know anything about Telus. You can probably call them and ask if they cripple the Bluetooth functions on their phones.

do u know any better programs than pc suite?