first u need to make sure you have bluetooth software installed and running properly.Then u need to pair your fone to the pc by choosing the pairing option, u should get a prompt to enter a pin number.
On your fone you need to enter the bluetooth menu, settings>>connetions>>bluetooth>>setup>>findme, then press SEARCH on the bluetooth pc software, it should find your fone and say "motorola phone".Assuming this all goes ok you can know access your tones and pics by clicking on the "motorola phone" in the lefthand pain in "my bluetooth places".To transfer games just drag and drop the JAR(java)game file to "OBEX OBJECT PUSH" icon in the right hand pain.
Hope this helps.