Verizon Krzr ringtone help

I have the Verizon Krzr K1m

And yes I know that their phones are the most restricted ..
but I also enjoy getting a signal where the other providers
dont.

Anyways .. I have tried all the hacks .. and all the other suggestions
to make my own ring tones .. which is all I really want to do .. and
I cant get anything to work.

I have no problems getting xxx.mid files to the mem card and to the phone
but .. but without a " use as ringtone " on any menu on the phone
it kinda hard


thanks
mike