Well... no replies, but I'll post my results.
I got my wife the Curve and myself the 800w.
My 800w has to be plugin allot, my wifes Curve will be at 80% full.
I've had to reset my phone 3 times in 2 weeks, my wifes Curve... never.
My 800w ringer is not very loud and the speakerphone is on the back.
The 800w almost looks like a Centro, except the case has a somewhat rubberized plastic (or w.e it's called) I find the Centro kind of cheap looking.
800w
Pros:
Small, yet resolution is 320 x 320
WiFi
Cons:
Horrible Battery life
Looks like a Centro
Windows Mobile (resetting 1 or 2 times a week)
I think I'm going to take it back and get a Curve.