Text Messages

I would like to know if there is a way I can view a text msg after it has been deleted. My spouse is texting a lot and I would like to know if they are cheating on me.

We are with Cingular which is now ATT -- When I login to my account online I can see the text messages but I would like to know the content. Is there any way to retreive this information?

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Originally Posted by scottvandill

I would like to know if there is a way I can view a text msg after it has been deleted. My spouse is texting a lot and I would like to know if they are cheating on me.

We are with Cingular which is now ATT -- When I login to my account online I can see the text messages but I would like to know the content. Is there any way to retreive this information?

How can someone cheat via text messages? The numbers to which the messages were sent show up on OLAM when you set the filter to Text/IM Messages. You could turn off messaging on your wife's phone but then they would have to meet face to face.

To put it simply, no. There's really no way to access the information being sent, unless you take your SO's phone and look through it.

Here's a thought, try asking her! If she's sneaking around behind your back and you're sneaking around trying to catch her, you probably already lost the relationship and don't even realize it. I'm not trying to sound negative at all!
Try talking to her a little more. The worst that could happen is that you actually "Communicate"

Peace

Originally Posted by spencermadison

Here's a thought, try asking her! If she's sneaking around behind your back and you're sneaking around trying to catch her, you probably already lost the relationship and don't even realize it. I'm not trying to sound negative at all!
Try talking to her a little more. The worst that could happen is that you actually "Communicate"

Peace

I'm not sure how your response helps him figure out how to read his wife's text messages. I'm sure if he wants relationship advice he'll pick a different forum.