The first thing you need to do is check the software version on your phone. If you have the original release of the V3c, with the version .02 software, you can connect the phone to your PC using USB cable and MPT. However, if you have a newer V3c, running .03 software, you are out of luck... as far as I know.
I am one of the fortunate few... I bought my V3c the day they came out (and paid a lot more for it...). But, I am able to upload MP3's and wallpapers to my phone with no problems.