Help me! RIZR Z3

This may be a strange request. I have been (happily) married for 22years. In the last 4 months my wife's behaviour has become increasingly erratic. Things like getting home later than she said or not being home when she normally would be. Taking/making phone calls on her mobile outside in the garden or in another room in our house. Texts too. When I ask she says its one of her friends or a member of the family she knows I don't get on with. In particular she now uses a PIN number to lock her phone and a separate PIN for her contacts and messages.

What I want to know is, is there a program that I could get hold of that would get her phone to give me her PINs? I have PhoneTools on my laptop for my own V3 and I'm sure it would work on her Z3. I can probably get her phone when she's asleep although it won't be easy. I hope someone can help as I'm going out of my mind over this....

The not knowing is infinitely worse than knowing. At least I'd then have some idea of what/who I'm dealing with and a chance to save my marriage.

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Is the bill in your name? Just contact the company and get hard copy records... it will take a bit as they have to be sent via smailmail...

Which would be worse... expressing your concerns to your wife now and getting it into the open, or her walking in while you have her phone hooked up trying to hack it and chancing hurting it? If you can't come clean about your concerns then is sounds like the marriage needed some saving, or some communication, before this started.

P.S.... are you coming up on a birthday/retirement and wifey could be planning something nice for you? Sometimes it's the silver lining being hidden by a storm cloud

Originally Posted by worried

In the last 4 months my wife's behaviour has become increasingly erratic.

You already know the answer dude. There is no need to check phone records. You can't be married to someone for over 2 decades and not know that this strange behavior is definitely a sign that something is going on on the side.

It's over. Move on.

Originally Posted by jeaniesing

P.S.... are you coming up on a birthday/retirement and wifey could be planning something nice for you? Sometimes it's the silver lining being hidden by a storm cloud

I gotta interject a funny story... long time ago my mom gave my bro and sis-in-law a chunk of money when they bought a new house. She, being anal about such things, insisted on giving me the same amount... I said, "Y'know mom, not in a million years would my husband let this money go into our account. He'll be angry with both of us!" She said, "I know, I've thought it out," handing me a check with no name written on it, "You are going to call your heating guy and have him install the central air [your husband] wants. Write the check over to him and pay the difference yourself."

So... for the next month I kept secrets, took the phone out of the room, spoke in code, and arranged to meet a man when my hubby wasn't around. The heating guy knew it was a secret and we even had a laugh over the fact that HIS wife commented on our secrecy from my hubby before she got the story....

Maybe it's not over

Originally Posted by jeaniesing

Maybe it's not over

First of all, I've seen this exact same post in various places over the last several months so I don't believe the post is real or serious.

Secondly, if it were real, it's unlikely that someone dealing with serious infidelity concerns about their spouse would run to a cell phone forum to ask others what to do.

Thirdly, even assuming that this post is legit (which is a big stretch), the man claims that the wife's behavior is increasingly erratic, that she is doing a combination of things that just don't add up AND the guy strongly suspects infidelity. As I originally said, anyone who has been married for over two decades to one person knows that person so well that there really isn't any confusion -- he already knows the answer in his heart (again, assuming this post is legit which I'd bet big money it isn't).

Then I'm sorry Wirelessfan, but you lose your 'big money'!

Quick update, I do have even stronger suspicions now, and I KNOW it's not a 'silver lining'.

I'm still trying to find a way to access those texts....

Originally Posted by worried

Then I'm sorry Wirelessfan, but you lose your 'big money'!

Quick update, I do have even stronger suspicions now, and I KNOW it's not a 'silver lining'.

I'm still trying to find a way to access those texts....

LOL. You're a card.

Tell me, how many places have you posted this? I know I've seen the exact same post several places ... including the British *****ings. I have a good memory for odd posts and yours falls in that category.

Just how long have you been posting this and in how many different places?

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bcoz there r a great number of phone they have
just check out.
best of luck

Originally Posted by jjyes

go to ????????????? and see what the phone they offer for u
bcoz there r a great number of phone they have
just check out.
best of luck

Stop posting trash, how is your post relevant to this subject?

no more warnings.