Nokia 6585 and infrared.

Hi I have a question or really more of a problem.
I have an HP IPAQ H2215 series with a infrared port. I want to be able to beam a data file(midi) to my nokia 6585 again with IR. The ipaq finds the phone but always fails when sending the file. When I go to settings\connections and click on beam then receive an infrared beam it finds the Nokia phone and sits on establishing connection with nokia 6585 and does nothing else. The Nokia never acknowledges that it has a request to transfer a file(not if if it suppose to) Both devices have their ports active. I have been able to dial my dailup account at work through the phone from my Ipaq. Any ideas would be great thanks

try a third party application to utilize the ir capabilties