problem getting video to blackberry curve 8310

I am new to whole "PDA World", (my last phone was the Nokia 6085), and I am having trouble bluetoothing video to the device. I've tried using the Blackberry Desktop Manager and can't work with it (don't have enough patience). I've bluetoothed ringtones and mp3's with no problem.

I tried to send a music video (not very big) and it takes a nano-second to think about it and say "transer failed."

Now what I'm trying to send is an MPEG, not an MPEG4. I couldn't find anything in my user manual that states what type of file the video must be: MPEG, MPEG1, MPEG2, MPEG4 -- nothing.

Any help out there?

I think an upgraded OS might do the trick, but its still a beta and not recommended.
Also see here:
BlackBerry - BlackBerry Help | BlackBerry Smartphone Help

Helped immensely with mine