ok, i took it back to the place i bought it from and told them whats up. they gladly offered an exchange. When i opened up the new box and tried that phone, it was the same thing. So the rep took out about 5 boxes and tried them all. all the phones had that bit of play in the screen. Whats up with that?
eventually the manager came out and shared his cell phone guru. All slide phones will have a little bit of side ot side play in the top part becasue there are no real supports to keep them from doing that he said. made sense.
i guess theres no problem. a tad bit of play is completely normal.
Oh, BTW, they gave me a new one even though there was no real defect or issue.