I cannot connect my phone to the PC using bluetooth. I do not know if the
problem is with the phone or the pc. I tried troubleshooting and it says that
I should go to:
Attach or turn on the Bluetooth radio adapter for your Windows XP computer.
Set up your mobile phone so that Windows XP can find it. Setting up your
phone includes:
Turning it on
Making it discoverable (or visible)
Giving it a name (optional)
If you are not sure how to set up your phone to make it discoverable, read
the documentation for the phone.

Open Bluetooth Devices in Control Panel.
On the Devices tab, click Add.
Follow the steps in the Add Bluetooth Device Wizard.

The problem with this is that I do not see the bluetooth device botton once I
am in the control panel. Is there anyway that I can make it work or is buying
a bluetooth adapter the only way?

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