ok so I figured out that if you've deleted the default.nth theme from your 6265i, this is not a problem. In fact it's a blessing. as described above this is what happened to my girlfriends phone. In order to fix this problem I took another theme in which the menu icons were different (I used the Nokia Basic theme) and I changed it's name to default.nth. Then I activated this theme and resarted the phone.
This only works to give you back lost menu icons, unfortunatly it doesn't fix the mp3 ringtone issues or any other issues that Telus created on this phone when they locked it out

So my girlfriend deleted her default telus theme on her 6265i, thus losing all her icons in her menu. She doesn't have the data cable and doesn't want to get it, so i can't unlock it and use the Nokia menu icons like I found in other threads. Does anyone have the telus default theme that i can download for her? or any other themes that will get around the block that telus seems to have on their menu.
I'd greatly appreciate any help given