I don't think you can get them sent via any sort of messaging. You could try and having a friend get a ringtone for you and then send it via MMS but you have to make sure your provider will let you get MMS files.

Wap is basically the internet on your phone. I have a 3595 as well and what I do is modify the midis & ringtones so they'll sound nice on my phone, then upload them to my own website, connect to my site on my phone and download them that way.

how do i get midi rings sent to my phone via messaging, i dont have cables or infrareds and have no idea what a wap is. if someone could please explain, i d be very grateful.