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    Luzciouzlipz
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    My ex boyfriend and I live in the same house and I know he has been going through my text messages and telephone while I have been sleeping. I have tried to do the same to him, but he always erases his text messages before I can read them. I know that he did have my voicemail code. I was stupid to call my vm from the house and my house phone saves the information until you dial another number.

    Anyway, I hate the fact that he has all my information and I don't have anything on him. I am an adminstator on our cell phone account and have access to all numbers called and things of that nature. But I want more. I want to know what he is up to, especially because he wants to get back together with me. I want to know if I should.

    Is there anyway that I can have his text messages forwarded to my phone without him knowing? Is there a way I can gain his vm password or any other sneaky thing you know of to get to his phone. Any help would be appreciated......

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    No, I have never heard of any way to forward someone's text messages to another phone without their knowledge, nor can I think of any way you could get his voicemail password. No lecturing here, but I would suggest that if you think what he is doing is wrong, don't let yourself sink to that level. Instead of snooping on his phone, protect yours and that will solve the problem.

    What kind of phone do you have? Check the user manual to see if you can turn on a password-protected key lock. Some have this feature, but many don't. Aside from that, all I could say is, lock your phone in your glove compartment or hide it somewhere...



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    I know that's what I was trying to do.... but it's like he is outsmarting me or something... I tried to lock my phone but it is asking me for a password...I have never put a password on it. I can reset his password and then gain access to his account, but then he will know that I have done it..... If there isn't any way to spy on someone's cell phone I'll just accept it.

    I thought there may have been a way to do something b/c my friends say he is probably forwarding my messages to his phone and stuff like that. He probably was just reading them all along while I was sleeping. The other nightwhile I was sleeping he tried to get my cell phone from underneath my pillow.

    Oh yeah back to ur question...lol

    I have an i836 Motorola....



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    and what provider? if you are the administrator of the account on some services I know you can read messages online.... if he is checking your phone that obviously I say the relationship is toast. Take advantage of your administrator privileges
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    The service provider is nextel/sprint .... I will see if I can gain access to it online.....



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    I'm not sure if i can get it online....i'm on the site under adminstrator... i don't see anywhere where I can read messages



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    Yes there is a way to forward messages to your phone but i am not going to help you invade someone's privacy.
    you can also change the password to your VM, just call customer service.

    also there's no need to double post the same thread.
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    deleted other thread. that was prob just a mistake.

    but you're kidding right? That's the stupidest thing I've ever heard. Don't let your phone out of your site; simple solution. Second, stop being a stupid girl and being all jealous.
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    Howdy Luzciouzlipz,

    Well you are not going to stop him from trying, so the only thing you cna do is read your messages and delete them like he does. So face it, he's pretty much figured out that you are reading (well trying to read his messages on his phone), and he just reads them and deletes them.

    You know your mistake about calling VM from the house phone, so don't make that one again, as I'm sure he never makes it, and trust me when he does do it, he'll be wanting you to hear the message. (as in setup).

    What you want is a back door password that works no matter what he changes his passwords to, but as far as I know their ain't no such thing, at least from the end user side anyway.

    But if you want to keep him out of your messages, that's simple enough.
    Get a lock box or small safe for your phone and any other things you want to keep him out of, and pop the in there while you are sleeping. And I'm not talking one of those cheap lock boxes you can pick with a paper clip, more along the lines of a gun safe type box.

    It does not look like you're going to outsmart this guy, since he already knows that what you are up to, as far as trying to get at his info, this is why you can't find any dirt on him. I would not be surprised that he didn't have a second account/phone, where he gets all his "personal" calls and text messages and is just leaving this one out as bait, to keep you from finding out anything as a game. Yuppers he knows how to tweak your buttons, so may as well keep the tweaking game going to keep things interesting.



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    Quote Originally Posted by tavenger5
    deleted other thread. that was prob just a mistake.

    but you're kidding right? That's the stupidest thing I've ever heard. Don't let your phone out of your site; simple solution. Second, stop being a stupid girl and being all jealous.
    i guess there's no need to sugar coat the truth, huh? lol



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    I was thinking some more about this situation, and what I would do if I found myself in a similar predicament. My solution would be to keep my phone all the way back in my pillowcase where nobody could get to it without waking me up.



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    Quote Originally Posted by Brad729
    I was thinking some more about this situation, and what I would do if I found myself in a similar predicament. My solution would be to keep my phone all the way back in my pillowcase where nobody could get to it without waking me up.
    Now there ya go Brad, a super simple solution and cheap too! Of course you'd wanna make sure the ringtones where shut off, cause that would be a not so nice way to wake up, if he decided to prank her at all hours of the night to get the phone back where he can get at it!



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    Quote Originally Posted by Luzciouzlipz
    I want to know what he is up to, especially because he wants to get back together with me.
    Let us not forget why lipzy wants this info... Read between the lines of what Tony is saying... must be the info is out there, he's just not gonna post it here. I still think I'd dump the dude. Anyone who is controlling enough to be wanting into your stuff like that? NOT cool honey...
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    Quote Originally Posted by jeaniesing
    Let us not forget why lipzy wants this info... Read between the lines of what Tony is saying... must be the info is out there, he's just not gonna post it here. I still think I'd dump the dude. Anyone who is controlling enough to be wanting into your stuff like that? NOT cool honey...

    Nah no need to read between the lines. And it's pretty clear why the OP wants the info. The EX is having fun as her ex, and it's eating her up that she can't get any dirt. But then of course we only have her say so, that he's looking at her messages, but we do know that she's tried to read his and he's smart enough to read them, and deleted them according to her anyway.



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    Quote Originally Posted by jeaniesing
    Let us not forget why lipzy wants this info... Read between the lines of what Tony is saying... must be the info is out there, he's just not gonna post it here. I still think I'd dump the dude. Anyone who is controlling enough to be wanting into your stuff like that? NOT cool honey...
    Definitely, Jeanie! I hadn't even commented on him wanting to get back with her because he sounds like a total creep to me if he's going to be that nosey and controlling. There's someone out there who will treat you better and not snoop through your business!

    After 6 years, my relationship has worked as well as it has because we respect each other's privacy and each make sure the other has enough 'comfort space'.



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